When you go to war upon your enemy…and you will see in captivity a woman of beautiful appearance and you will desire her... You shall shave her head and make her [pare her] nails... she shall remove her garb of captivity and... mourn for her father and mother for thirty days... [only then can you marry her]... (Deut. 21:10-14)
So begins our Torah portion. This essay explores the deeper and personal meaning of "a woman of beautiful appearance" and the inner significance of shaving the head and cutting the nails. On the literal level, this law addresses the inevitable occurrence during war of a soldier's desiring to marry one of the captive women.
The soul of man is made up of two general parts: one that remains beyond and above the body and one that is enclothed within it. The first aspect does not undergo the process of Divine concealment administered to the second aspect. Thus it remains aloof from the body and is not affected by its distorted view of reality. This part of the soul is called mazal, as in the saying, "although he does not see it, his mazal sees it."
Ravina commented: Learn from this that one who becomes frightened for no apparent reason, it is because, though he did not see it (the cause for his fear), his mazal did see it.
In other words, although a person is not consciously aware of his mazal, he is affected by what the mazal experiences. Thus if the mazal is afraid, the person will be afraid. If the mazal is inspired, the person will inexplicably feel inspired.[1] The mazal, therefore, because of its superior vision, guides the person through certain decisions, causing him to choose the path that will best serve his ultimate purpose.[2]
It is called mazal, a word that can connote "flowing," since the energy of the mazal flows to the aspect of the soul that inhabits the body.[3]
The mazal aspect of the soul is referred to as yefat to'ar, "beautiful appearance." Beauty is produced by the coming together of various elements. One color does not create beauty. It is the convergence of various colors that creates beauty. Similarly, the mazal receives its energy from a number of Divine elements and is therefore related to the sefira of tiferet.
The aspect of the soul that inhabits the body is called "a woman of beautiful appearance," being that it is the recipient of the beauty of the higher aspect of the soul.
In Kabbalah, female symbolizes reception, while male symbolizes giving. Hence she is referred to as a woman in captivity, since the lower aspect of the soul is, so to speak, held captive by the mental and emotional chains of the bodily perspective. So when a person "desires her"—he truly wishes to free the imprisoned soul from its captivity, he must "shave her head" and "cut her nails."[4]
Extreme Filter
The Torah's attitude towards hair is seemingly conflicted. The Nazir's hair is holy; the Levite in the desert had to shave his hair. The beard and payot (the sideburns of a man's beard) should not be touched; a woman's hair must be covered. The hair of the leper and the "yefat to'ar" must be shaved; the hair of Samson was the source of his strength.
In the supernal worlds as well we find this paradox. The "hair" of Atika Kadisha is the source of life for all worlds.[5] The hair of Nukva (Malchut - the lowest sefira), by contrast, is a source of vitality for negative energies.
Hair represents extreme filtering of vitality, tzimtzum. A person therefore experiences no pain when his hair is cut. The energy found in the hair is the "surplus of the brain." Therefore, the source of the hair or "surplus," will determine whether the hair is positive or negative.
The "surplus" of the brain of a mystic, what is called "foolishness" and a "joke," contains deep wisdom. As the Talmud comments—on the verse in Psalms (1:3), regarding the righteous, its leaf does not wither—"The mundane talk of scholars should be studied." (Sukka 21b) Even the leaf of the righteous, which is subordinate to the main thing, the fruit, is substantial and does not wither. Similarly, his "mundane" talk, which is subordinate to his principal wisdom, is substantial and requires analysis.
On the other hand, the "brain surplus" of the average person, his shtut, or joke or mundane talk does not contain any wisdom and in fact distracts him from Divine consciousness.
Similarly, the "hair" of Nukva, the extreme filtering of malchut, which is the lowest sefira and is within the order of creation, allows for the sustenance of negative forces. Thus the hair of the Nazir (or the beard and payot of any man), which derives its energy from Atika Kadisha should not be cut.
The hair of a woman, by contrast, which derives from Nukva of Atzilut, must be covered, since it can allow for the sustenance of negative forces.
The Tzemach Tzedek speaks of hair as an indirect expression of the principal wisdom and thus allows a person of lower understanding to perceive the wisdom of a great sage, which would otherwise be inaccessible. A metaphor given by a fool, or even one whose wisdom is not profound, is empty words, since the idea can be conveyed directly.
On a personal level, the hair of the captive soul, which must be shorn, refers to the scattering of the soul's energies–its mind and heart–to worthless endeavours. This is the "surplus" of the soul, which must be cut off in order for the soul to reconnect with its higher aspect, its mazal.
A person must also cut off "the nails," i.e., the surplus of the hand, which is called chesed for the hand is used to do kindness. When this is accomplished, the soul's energies are redirected entirely through the fulfilment of Torah and mitzvot and it is freed from its captivity.
Based on discourses in Likutei Torah p. 36a ff. and Derech Mitzvotecha p. 208 ff.
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Footnotes
Thus the Baal Shem Tov explained the purpose of the bat-kol, or “heavenly voice" that makes various declarations. But if nobody hears them, what use are they? The answer: you may not hear it, but your mazal does. (See the Rebbe’s commentary on Pirkei Avot 6:2) ↩︎
See for example, Likutei Sichot 30:223 fn. 24, cited in Yosef Jacobson’s essay "Souls on the Fringe," fn. 16. ↩︎
Mazal is reminiscent of James Hillman's Daemon. ↩︎
Perhaps the story of Rapunzal is based on the same teaching. She is enclosed in a tower. ↩︎
Atik, "ancient," or "detached" refers to the sphere that is beyond the order of creation. In Atik, the Zohar says, "there is no left side"--it is beyond the source for concealment. The "hairs of Atik," though, i.e., the energy of Atik extremely filtered, serve as the source of creation. For creation can only come into being through the concealment of the Divine. ↩︎